Sex Stories Articles

The Bible teaches that a married person should not want to hug or kiss or want to have sexual relations with anyone except their own spouse. However sexual arousal is not the same as wanting to hug or wanting to kiss or wanting to have sex with someone. Sexual arousal, or getting turned on, can happen at any time and cannot be turned on like a switch. Sexual arousal is not an act of the will, but rather an emotion that cannot be controlled. Consequently sexual arousal is not sin. So it's ok for two couples to do things together that result in mutual sexual arousal, such as watching each other undress in a shared hotel room, as long as the couples agree that it is ok to become sexually aroused from the activity together, and as long as each individual continues to only desire to have sex with their own spouse. 

"Romance" sex stories have a pink and red heart beside them and are marriage romance stories with brief references to intimacy between the husband and wife in the story. These love stories focus on the emotional and romance side of marriage and only briefly describe the sexual aspect of marriage.

"Passionate" sex stories have a red heart beside them and are marriage romance love stories with detailed descriptions of marriage sex. This category includes love stories where the husband and wife may explore each other's bodies and sexual areas with kisses and tongues during foreplay.

"Hot" sex stories have a deep red or maroon heart beside them and are marriage sex stories that go beyond normal sex to include things like playful spankings, oral sex, sex toys, and tying each other up with ribbons.

"Steamy" sex stories have a purple heart beside them. These are marriage love stories with sexual activity in a semi-private place such as in the car or outdoors. We do not allow sex in an illegal location.

"Erotic" sex stories have a blue heart beside them. This category includes erotic stories of experiences that involve a third party such as another couple. Examples would be, undressing in the same tent while camping together, sharing a room together on a cruise, playing strip poker together, and skinny dipping together.

The Bible teaches that a married person should not want to hug or kiss or want to have sexual relations with anyone except their own spouse. However sexual arousal is not the same as wanting to hug or wanting to kiss or wanting to have sex with someone. Sexual arousal, or getting turned on, can happen at any time and cannot be turned on like a switch. Sexual arousal is not an act of the will, but rather an emotion that cannot be controlled. Consequently sexual arousal is not sin. So it's ok for two couples to do things together that result in mutual sexual arousal, such as watching each other undress in a shared hotel room, as long as the couples agree that it is ok to become sexually aroused from the activity together, and as long as each individual continues to only desire to have sex with their own spouse. 

In real life stories, a person may express how they became sexually aroused by seeing another person of the opposite sex or by letting another person see them. While we believe God does not condemn a couple who interacts at a physical level with another couple or single adult, we also know it can lead to jealousy problems in the marriage and so we don't want to encourage such conduct even though we know it is common in our society. And so in real life stories, a married person may only sexually touch their own spouse and express sexual desire for their own spouse.

This category also includes fantasy stories. Fantasies may include sex outside of marriage, if when a couple is together making love, they decide to makeup a fantasy, to help each other get turned on. If a fantasy includes sex with another married person; then in the fantasy, the married person who they are having sex with and the spouse of the married person they are having sex with, both need to agree to the sex.

We allow fantasies to include spouse requested sex outside marriage, during lovemaking, because we know in real life couples use this method to help each other become more aroused during love making, and because a fantasy is not real and because the Bible does have many examples of God condoned, society condoned, and spouse condoned sex outside of marriage (One man and one wife). For example, Abraham and Sarah each had sex outside of marriage at the request of the other. Abraham told Sarah to have sex with the Kings of Egypt and Sarah told Abraham to have sex with Hagar. There are many other examples in the Bible also, for example King Solomon had 1500 of them and King David had 300 of them (which God condoned in 2 Samuel 12:8).

From my study of the Bible, I believe God defines adultery as when a married person cheats, or wishes they could cheat on their spouse, as God never condemned anyone in the Bible for having sex outside of marriage when their spouse asked them to, or when God allowed it (polygamy). However, I still believe spouse directed sex outside of marriage is not God's best for a marriage, and so I strongly discourage persons from having sex outside of marriage, even with the approval or at the request of their spouse. And I am against polygamy as it is illegal and unfair to the first wife, and as the New Testament teaches elders and deacons cannot have multiple wives and so this shows polygamy is not God's best for a marriage.

In both real life and fantasy stories no sexual interaction is allowed between members of the same sex.

This category includes erotic stories with words that might sound naughty or offensive, but are being used as terms of endearment or as part of a love language between the husband and wife.

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